Part 2 Maintaining a Conversation: 2. Ask questions

Ask questions. Questions are a great way to keep a conversation going. If there seems to be a lull in conversation, push it forward with a few questions.
  • Try asking about something someone just said. For example, "That's interesting. What was it like going to school in a big city?"
  • You can also bring up a new topic through a question. Think about something that would be appropriate to introduce given the situation. For example, if you're talking to someone at school, say something like, "What did you think of that chemistry exam?"

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