Open with a question. A question is a great way to open a conversation. It gets things going and conveys interest in the other person. Shortly after introducing yourself, try asking a question. Also, it is best to ask an open-ended question that requires more than a "yes" or a "no" answer. If you're at a party, for example, open by saying something like, "How do you know the host?" If you're at a networking event, ask someone about their work. Say something like, "What exactly does your job entail?"
Refrain from judgment. People do not want to make conversation with people who are judgmental. During any conversation, remind yourself you're trying to learn about another person. You are not there to make judgments or assumptions. Refrain from analyzing what's being said and instead focus on listening. This will give you less time to judge, making people comfortable sharing with you.
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